VICKI L. MAY, age 64,
Of New Bremen, died peacefully surrounded by her family after a hard-fought battle from unexpected cardiac issues on Wednesday, July 31, 2024, at 5:48 P.M. at the Miami Valley Hospital in Dayton. She was born on May 12, 1960, in St. Marys the daughter of Lloyd W. Schroer who survives in New Bremen, and the late Janice B.E. (Topp) Schroer. In addition to her father, she leaves behind her best friend and companion of 43 years, Timothy S. May, whom she married on February 7, 1981. Her children Keith (Benjamin Bergman) May of New Knoxville, and Jessica (Dakota) Blair of Kettlersville were privileged to call her mom and friend. She was also a doting mama to her three favorite littles, Aubree, Rylee, and Jackson Blair. Also surviving are her sisters Deb (Gregg) Prater of Sidney and Lori (Kurt) Rindler of New Bremen, as well as her father in-law Larry May and sister in-law Kay (Randy Searight) May of New Bremen, and many friends, cousins, and nephews and nieces. In addition to her own mother, Vicki was preceded in death by her mother in-law Shirley May and sister in-law Cynthia May.
Vicki was a 1978 graduate of New Bremen High School and went on to graduate from The Ohio State University in Lima with an associate degree in Early Childhood Development. She went on to begin working at Shelby Hills Board of Developmental Disabilities before starting at Auglaize County Board of Developmental Disabilities where she had enjoyed working in various positions over the last 38 years. She was baptized, confirmed, and married in St. Paul Church in New Bremen where she was also the junior choir director and Sunday school superintendent for a number of years. She had also attended the Immanuel Church of Kettlersville where she was part of the women’s group, and more recently, First Presbyterian Church in Sidney. Vicki had a fierce love for her family, and nothing brought her greater joy than being that mother hen and having all of her “chicks” in her nest. She also loved to spend time with family and friends at family meals, having adult beverages around a campfire, or her monthly girl’s nights out. Travel was also a huge part of Vicki and Tim’s life together. Countless weekend trips, motorcycle trips, snowmobiling trips, family vacations, and trips with friends were enjoyed across the United States, Canada, and Europe. She also enjoyed quiet time as an avid reader and sudoku master. As a mother, Vicki was a fierce supporter of her children and grandchildren always keeping up on their lives with daily morning phone calls, and taking an interest in their educational, sporting, music, and civic activities, especially those years she spent as the Cardinal Music Booster president, becoming a second mom to many of Keith and Jessica’s friends. Above all else, Vicki will always be remembered as a kind and selfless person, always giving of herself, and always having a beautiful smile.
A service of celebration to honor Vicki’s life will be held on Wednesday, August 7, 2024, at 11:00 A.M. at the Crown Pavilion in New Bremen with Rev. David Voll officiating. In keeping with Vicki’s love of food, family, friends and fun, casual dress is encouraged for the services, and a time of meal and fellowship will follow the service at the Pavilion. Private inurnment will be held in the Schwaberow Cemetery, near to Tim and Vicki’s home. Calling Hours will be held on Monday, August 5, 2024, from 3:00 P.M. until 7:00 P.M. at the Gilberg-Hartwig Funeral Home in New Bremen. In lieu of flowers and gifts, the family would love for memorial contributions to be made to the Auglaize D.D. Legacy Scholarship (C/O: Auglaize County Board of D.D., 20 E. First Street, New Bremen, Ohio), or to the Kettlersville / Van Buren Twp. Fire Department (P.O. Box 176, Kettlersville, Ohio 45336). Gilberg-Hartwig Funeral Home in New Bremen is assisting the family with arrangements, and memories and condolences can be left on their website, www.gilberghartwigfh.com.
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Lisa Thobe says
August 2, 2024 at 3:35 pmAlways a smile on her face. Prayers for comfort and peace for all who loved her.
Sue Bollinger says
August 2, 2024 at 3:39 pmKeith and family, you have my deepest condolences. May God give you all peace and comfort in the days ahead
Sherri Lowe says
August 2, 2024 at 3:57 pmMy heart breaks for your entire family, her friends and the community. Vicki was a beautiful human being and life as we know it will not be the same.
Kat Sommer says
August 2, 2024 at 4:18 pmSincere condolences for the family and friends of Vicki, I am sure she will be missed. Keep her alive in your memories….
Nancy Paul Kroeker says
August 4, 2024 at 5:40 pmSo sorry for your loss. She always had a happy smile. Thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Roger and Cheryl Barlage says
August 2, 2024 at 4:27 pmSo sorry for your family’s loss. Sending prayers during this difficult time.
David Cron says
August 2, 2024 at 4:36 pmKeith, I was just reading on the website and seeing where your mother has passed away. I am so sorry to hear about this. I didn’t realize she had been sick but it looks like maybe a brief illness. Just wanting to let you know I’m thinking of you and your family at this at this time if you need anything, please let me know. My prayers are with you all
Larry Warren-Goldschmidt says
August 2, 2024 at 6:01 pmSorry for your loss. Thoughts and Prayers. Larry Warren-Goldschmidt and Patrick Goldschmidt. (Fort Loramie)
The Meyers Family says
August 2, 2024 at 11:57 pmGreatly sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking about you all and wishing you healing through cherished memories in this time!
Joan Moyer says
August 3, 2024 at 8:29 amTim and family, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Vicki will be greatly missed!
Jill Poppe MacKenzie says
August 3, 2024 at 2:19 pmTim and family my heart aches for your loss. Vicki’s smile was always warm and welcoming.
Glenn Melter says
August 3, 2024 at 8:12 pmTim and family,
We are sorry to hear of Vicki’s passing. Please know that we are praying for God’s comfort and peace for you all.
Glenn and Denise Melter
Dean and Kate Hartwig says
August 3, 2024 at 8:26 pmTim and family, we are so very sorry to hear about the devastating loss of Vicki. Our deepest condolences to your entire family and all who knew and loved her! Prayers to you all!
Tom & Lisa Vondenhuevel says
August 5, 2024 at 8:48 amTim we were very sadden this morning when we learned of Vicki’s passing. Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and the whole family.
Victor Geib says
August 4, 2024 at 7:45 amDear Tim and Family, I am so very sorry for the recent passing of Vicki. Vicki was such a wonderful, bright and loving person. She gave her energy and love into everything she cared. Everyone who knew Vicki was blessed. She was the best Administrative Assistant and Friend. Vicki will be missed. My love and support to her family and friends during this very difficult time. Prayers to you all.
Craig & Brenda Siefring says
August 5, 2024 at 9:59 amSo sorry for your loss — thinking of all of you during this difficult time.
Beverly Gerber says
August 7, 2024 at 1:21 pmTim, Keith, Jessica and family, our sincerest condolences on the loss of Vickie. Prayers that you find comfort and peace in your memories of her. Bev and Jeff Gerber
Debra K Lear says
August 7, 2024 at 2:04 pmI am so sorry to hear this about Vicki. My condolence to the entire family.
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